To Every Blog There is a Season
In the spirit of Ecclesiastes (and The Byrds) it seems like it’s time to share with you some reflections on the future of DatingGod.org. This post marks number 1,008 that has been published on this website since its launch in October 2010. As we come close to the third anniversary of the blog, having crossed the thousandth-post and the half-million-visitors mark, I felt it was appropriate to pause and evaluate what the origin, purpose, mission, and future of the blog was, is, and should be. In short, after several weeks of consideration and prayerful reflection, I’ve decided that it is time for a change.
Some of the more regular readers might have noticed a fluctuation in the frequency and regularity of posts here beginning in the summer and carrying through to today. This wasn’t accidental. I’ve been experimenting with how often to post new material, offer commentary, and share information, prayers, and thoughts through this medium. I haven’t found a particularly satisfying balance. Other blogs have a schedule — daily, twice-weekly, weekly, “occasional,” and so on. This blog has never really had that, although it is — if you do the math — on average a daily blog. It has never been officially stated that this is the intention, it just happened this way.
And this is what I believe has to change.
As the title of the blog indicates (although many people have forgotten about this) the site was actually launched in late 2010 in anticipation of my first book, Dating God: Live and Love in the Way of St. Francis. It was never my intention, desire, or aspiration to start a blog, but rather the request of my publisher. With hesitation, I agreed to do it. Over the subsequent several years, I had come to appreciate and even at-times “enjoy” communicating in this way with whomever was interested in reading and responding. This medium has connected me, and continues to connect me still, with many women and men I would only otherwise know virtually through social media. I’m grateful for that, for this has proven to be a form of evangelization, communication, and dialogue that I wouldn’t have expected.
But I’ve been wondering lately what the precise mission and purpose of this blog should be now that Dating God: Live and Love in the Way of St. Francis has been in print for more than a year. The blog has certainly taken on a life of its own and indeed is something beyond just an online extension of the book. But what exactly?
At this point, I feel that DatingGod.org is best understood as one medium among many media through which I can communicate ideas, reflections, and commentary. Since the launch of DatingGod.org, I have been invited to be a regular contributor to a number of other online media (for example, The HuffingtonPost and America Magazine, to name two). Additionally, the amount of traveling I do for speaking events, lectures, and retreats (not to mention family, religious community, and other events) has increased over the years as has the number of requests for me to write in both scholarly and popular settings. This has been a wonderful joy, but has also placed certain demands on my time. As you all know so well, there is a limited amount of time in a given day, the realization of which has led me to take more seriously this milestone in the life of DatingGod.org to consider what to do moving forward.
Here’s what I’ve decided for now. DatingGod.org will consciously move from a regular, sometimes-daily blog to an “occasional” platform for sharing information, offering reflection, and communicating in this format. What this means is that there will be less-regular posts here, but that its not going away completely. If I had to guess, I would say that it’s likely that there will be a post here weekly, although that might also include cross-publication of writing that appears in other venues (think HuffPo and America, for example). I should also say that it is possible, perhaps down the road, for the mission, purpose, and future of DatingGod.org to change again and return to a more-regular pace, but for now this is where we stand.
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Thanks, as always, to the many, many people who have been so supportive and enthusiastic about DatingGod.org over the years! I hope that you will continue to be so supportive!
Peace and good!